Time Changes Things

*** Read to the end to enter yourself for a little something other than JUNK in your mailbox!***


Ten years ago, this would have been my definition of 'luxury':


My, oh, my....how one little decade can change things!
Presently, this is my new, and slightly pared-down definition of the same word:

Jimmy Buffet himself couldn't even make Paradise seem any more perfect than what I am enjoying on my own front porch right now.

This scenario was created largely in part to the wisdom tooth removal that occurred in my mouth bright & early yesterday morning. Was it worth it? YES. For this moment of solace alone, I'd consider removing even more teeth...however, there are far more ladies I'd rather resemble than LouLou from Hee Haw (this post is going to take a distinctly vintage turn. If you don't remember the 80's country music variety show as referenced above, consider yourself far classier than I).

I am sitting out on my front porch with my husband's laptop, my favorite cappucino drink and a bunch of cheery yellow flowers that were dropped off yesterday by two incredibly thoughtful friends. In addition, my husband took the twins, picked up the 3 other children who had stayed overnight at my parent's home {thank you!thankyou!thankyou!} and headed to the church camp where the eldest son has been staying all week. That leaves me alone. Blessedly alone.

To maximize my enjoyment of this 'down time', I vacuumed, dusted, straightened up, made beds and made sure all the drawers in the house were closed nice and tight. Yes, I've been told I am to take it easy...and I am. Now that I feel my home is in order, I can relax to the fullest. I'm weird that way. Just like when we rent a movie...I flutter like a bat out of Hades, tidying up the house so I can truly sit and savor before pushing 'play'. That children's book partially sticking out of the drawer will drive me to distraction. Orderliness leads to Serenity. You know what I mean???

I digress. {But what's new?}


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There are a few things from my childhood that I miss. {This is where this post is taking a vintage turn. If you prefer the new and the modern, you might as well keep blog hopping now}.

The first, is this beaut:

I miss sticking my fingers in those round little holes and the smooth zipping sounds of varying lengths that led me to the line of the friend I was dialing. I wish for my children the lack of privacy that these telephonic wonders created, the way one had to stretch the cord, exhausting is elasticity in order to at least be able to talk around the corner or in the closet...away from the rest of the family's listening ears.

There is danger in the privacy of these little vats of communication found in the palms of our hands, especially the young hands who have never known anything other than instant access and abbreviated conversations that do not require a voice.

Even better would have been the days of Aunt Bea, dialing up Sarah, the town Operator, to connect her through to Andy. But I am waaaaayyyyy too young to have known that era. ;)


Oh, Fisher Price...Oh, Fisher Price...where did your record players go???

I had the exact model as pictured above. It's scratchy needle afforded me hours upon hours of serenades by the Bill Gaither Trio, Disney sound tracks ("It's a world of laughter, a world of tears...there's so much that we share, that's it's time we're aware, it's a small world after all!) and other deeply life changing masterpieces like "John Jacob Jingle Heimerschmidt”.

There is comfort in the crackling sound of music created by a needle.

Today's sentimental journey trails off with Tinkerbell cosmetics. I can still smell the distinct aroma of the lipstick and the easy peel nail polish (oh the satisfaction of peeling it off in one whole piece!). It was around that time that my cousin wore Avon's "Sweet Honesty"...oh how I wanted my own vile of that delicate perfume! Instead, I had to settle for my own "Baby Soft" roll-on scent. It did smell fine, but nothing like Sweet Honesty {to my mother, I'll insert here that you should not recoil in guilt or allow yourself any angst that you never 'read the signs', failing to order me a little Avon goodness. It's water under the bridge, or dam, or whatever it is}.

Now, I have a question for you, dear reader:

What is it that YOU miss or hold fond memories of???

A submitted memory is a chance to win a little something special (perhaps made by Judy @ Just A Little Something For You!)

Comments

Fiffer said…
Jeane! Your blog made me think of things I don't necessarily miss, but things my kids will never know the joys(?) of...

One is when I wanted to "tape record" great songs from the radio because I couldn't afford to buy the records. I would play the radio and at the perfect moment press "record" on my tape player -- the playbacks of these songs are filled with the phone ringing in the background as well as my loudly whispered "Shhhh shhhh" whenever someone would walk into the room. iTune users never knew so much fun!!

The other memory I have is when we would be on a trip and traveling with another family in a different car. No cell phones so we had a stash of signs we would hold up..."Let's stop to eat." "Need gas." "Have to go!" And we'd race up beside them and hold up the sign so they knew it was time to stop.

Ah the days of no technology. What stories we will have to tell our grandchildren!!

Hope your recovery is going well. Your porch setup looks delightful!

love, Fiffer
Sally Krueger said…
Ok....first I OFTEN feel the way you described in your post. For all of the wonderful conveniences and techno marvels today's life can offer...there is something so sweet and desirable about simpler years.

I must agree in a way with Fiffer, in that, the 1st thing I thought of was the "tape recoreder." My girlfriend & I used to idle the hours away creating our own talk show, complete with interviews and commercials on dozens and dozens of blank cassette tapes. I even remember the name of the show..."Something New" hosted by "Madge Clinton." I think we even created a newsletter to go along with the tapes...(for all of our adoring fans). :)

And my second runner up would be...I miss looking forward to a new episode of Little House on the Prairie every Monday night! I'd have face washed and teeth brushed...ready to go to watch my favorite show! That...and Sunday nights which were always the staple...Mutual of Omaha's "Wild Kingdom" followed by the "Wonderful World of Disney." :)

Love you,
Sally
Michelle said…
Love this Love this Love this! I do the EXACT same thing: tidy prior to watching a movie. Tidy prior to sitting down and relaxing. Tidy prior to {insert action}.! :)

I miss my record player too! My bro and I would listen to Music Machine and Bullfrogs and Butterflies.

And, along with Fiffer and Sally, Cassette Tapes. Oh yes. Times such as taping the songs on FM97, {very much not allowed in my home growin up}, thinking I was SO COOL b/c I now knew the words to the popular songs, taping radio shows that a friend and I created, and playing tapes in my pink walkman {while rollerskating and biking}.

OK, so now that I'm on a roll ... I miss baggy shirts and pants, orange/lime/mustard tupperware play sets, the little birthstone rings that were gold and adjustable and turned your finger green after day 2, getting up to change the channel on the TV {by pushing the channel buttons on the front}, using a popcorn maker before owning a microwave, Popples and Care Bears, Strawberry Shortcake ...

Oh, I love the 'old days'! We had so much fun without modern technology.
Mandi Cheslock said…
I was just thinking about this the other day - I wish they'd bring back those little plastic colorful charms that we put on those chain necklaces sometime in the 80s. It was fun collecting them! :) Oh, and the Smurfs! :) I'd buy those two things for my kids out of nostalgic feelings alone!
Michelle said…
I know I already posted, but I wanted to comment to Mandi, I LOVED those chain & charm necklaces! I remember in 3rd grade, I was banned from blowing the whistle charm... :)
Jeane` said…
Ooohhhh girls, your responses have been SO much FUN to read, and with every one I think "yes!!!! I did/had the very same thing!!!". I only wish I could locate the tapes of my "talk shows" and that plastic charm necklace that was a prized treasure amongst my humble posessions! Thanks so much for making my day with your memories... Keep 'em coming! I know I won't be the only one enjoying them!
I too am much like you in the fact I can not sit and relax until my home is in order...funny little thing...but also very annoying at times...LOL.

What is I miss...playing army in the back yard as our huge rhodadendren bush as our fort, a good game of cartoon tag,indian ball in the park across the street, and racing our bikes in different directions around the block. This is how my brothers and I passed the summer days away. Sometimes I have to declare "no electronic" days I get so tired of their interest in these fast finger non communicative (is that a word???) games.

I personally really miss my Mickey Mouse Clock Radio. It had Mickey Mouse's head as the dial. Also I have fond memories of my yellow Schwinn bike with the banana floral seat. I loved that bike!

Thanks for writing and I'll be praying for you heal well after your surgery!

Shannon "J"
Grace Remembers said…
I was just pondering some memories of yore and here's what I came up with...

Sitting in the back of the family station wagon and car sickness. Not a bad memory sans the sickness. At least I can laugh now:) Seat belts...don't think we heard of them when I was younger as they really were not used...ever.

I remember listening to dad's classical music (which was always playing in our house, much to the kids dismay) on the 8-track player. Yep, you read me right. We would also listen to records of the Smith Brothers. Dad inherited a huge piece of furniture that was really just an enormous record player. Nights would be spent listening to this on the floor of his study. He would also read us poetry. Edgar Allan Poe was one of my favorites. Oh, and I can't forget the Sunday afternoon drives. We would all pile into the van and dad would drive through the beautiful mountains in upstate NY. He would purposely get "lost." He had a keen sense of adventure that way but his sense of direction was even better.

I can't forget the TV shows. Let's see...The Lawrence Welk show, The Love Boat, Mary Tyler Moore, Cheers, Miami Vice, Mash, etc. We had a black and white TV with only a couple channels. Since we were restricted with what we could watch, I saw everything else at my friend's house. Then there are a few movies that stick in my mind, such as ET, Star Wars and Top Gun.

There are so many memories. Writing "secrets" in my lock & key journal. Riding our bikes all over our tiny town; camping with the family; swimming in the lakes that surrounded the Adirondacks; spending summers on a friend's farm; building forts in the haymow and spending the nights there; the smell of a new school building and books back when it was still exciting to go; wild missionary adventure stories told at VBS during story time; and jumping off our porch roof into huge mounds of snow in the winter.

Wow, sorry for the length. It has been fun to wander down memory lane. Sometimes you just forget how it felt when everything was so new and full of adventure and possibility.

Thanks for the reminder Jeane'!
Linda said…
Actually some of the things I miss, are coming back again! I remember putting tinsel on our Christmas tree, which had to be put on one by painstakingly one. I also loved those big colored lights my mom strung on the tree. I found some new ones last year and now my tree has those nostalgic colored lights! I remember my record player, too, and I thought I was the only one who pretended she was a DJ! Oh, well! I remember my Schwinn bike. It was blue with a bell and those streamers from my handles. I wish I had that bike now.
Sarah said…
I miss rotary phones, too!

A "silly" thing that I really hold fond memories of is TGIF. Nearly every Friday, my parents would order pizza and we'd all sit around and watch Boy Meets World, Full House, and Family Matters together. It's TV, but I still just really enjoy the memory of that weekly time set aside just for us.
Darlene Ahlberg said…
I have had such fun walking down memory lane with all you ladies! I can relate to so many of them!! My sister came up from Ohio this past weekend and as we sat around the campfire catching up with what is new in our lives, we also spent a good portion reminiscing. We shared our memories of playing such non-traditional games of Sardines, Car's are Monsters (we made that one up!!) and Frontier Days (she was always 'Constance' and I was 'Reminder' ~ such cool prairie day names!!) And coming home when the street lights came on, WALKING house to house to gather enough players for a neighborhood baseball game, banana seat bikes, and babysitting until we had enough money to buy those purple Converse All-Stars that cost $13.95! Simpler times, to be sure. And that 1 TV with only 3 stations assured our family watched TV together. Sunday nights were the best!
Jeane', you have such a gift of putting pen to paper (oops, I'm still in nostalgia mode ~ I mean a computer to MicroSoft Word!). Thank you for your blog which gives us a beautiful insight into your heart and soul.
PS: I must also thank you for your admission to having to have everything tidy & in order before you can actually relax and enjoy yourself. We are cut from that same cloth and it's nice to know I'm not a freak!! :)
Wanda said…
Okay, that's no fun getting your wisdom teeth out! Groan. I didn't see the massively swollen face though....how'd you escape that one? Glad you did, though!

I miss the tape player that my Grandma Martin bought for me. I could record my little songs and messages on that tape player. It was just too much fun. I guess youngsters nowadays use digital cameras or iPods to create mini videos instead of mini recordings. Oh, well.

Much love to you and your dear blog! Hope you recover quickly!
Leanne O said…
Oh! I was going to start reading through the others' comments/memories first but I think I'll stick with what comes to my mind and read on after I push "publish your comment".

I, too, miss the ding a ling telephones. At that time we were on a party line. That meant that not only did you risk the chance that when you wanted to use the phone someone else might be on it already, you also ran the risk that if you got to the phone first there was the possibility that they would pick up the phone half way through and listen in! Isn't that the weirdest? It's not even that I'm anciently old!

Another fond memory is of playing with my aunt in the "big" closet in her bedroom. It was maybe 10 feet deep but even at 6 I don't think we could stand up straight. Yet we were there for hours with her collections of dolls and the bright lite. (She was killed in a car accident at 17 and so those memories are a bit sweeter in their own way.)

Summer vacations, Mom and Dad were both teachers and so we spent weeks away on end doing road trips here and there. Saw some of God's amazing creation and made some special memories.

One last sharing.... we used to have a birthday line on the local radio station on Saturday mornings. You could call up and wish anyone you wanted a happy birhtday. You went live on air and we had ridiculous amounts of fun singing songs to embarass eachother. All with the hopes of being the lucky random caller to win the birthday cake for the week!

Hindsight is SO 20/20 and looking back on those special times is a great blessing indeed.

Thanks for encouraging me to indulge!

That looked like one special quiet time/day! I'm sure you enjoyed it immensely.
i miss the days when mud mixed with grass was the BEST meal ever! and left to "bake" to perfection on my rock beside the creek....oh the days!!

i also loved those "jelly" bracelets and shoes....the silly banz that kids have now take me right back. oh if only my jelly braclets could line my arm from wrist to elbow....i would indeed hold "cool" status for at least 3 days.

"growing pains", "punky bruster" and "gilligans island". the BEST.
Jaime Kapur said…
I ditto the "tidying" instinct as well, although I have to say that sheer exhaustion and indifference seem to win out on me these days.

Some of my favorite memories of toys from the past include Lite-Brite at my grandma's house (although I think the little colored plastic doo-dads ended up under the furniture more than in the light box!); Shrinky-dinks (those little guys morphed so magically in our oven); and Sticker books (I remember hours spent trading and collecting with my cousin Becky. I always envied her extensive collection . . . especially the cool scratch 'n sniff ones!) Thanks for bringing back some memories, Jeane'!

- Jaime
clarita yoder said…
I loved this too! You are just a fantastic writer! And I TOTALLY get the thing of cleaning up the house before relaxing. I simply *cannot* enjoy a quiet moment until all within eyesight, and preferably the entire house, are in order. Call me crazy, probably. I hope I shall not die of OCD!

So glad you that can enjoy a few moments of solitude, even if it's at the expense of your wisdom teeth! Which makes me think... I still have my mine. I think this might be a good time to get them out - just to have some quiet moments alone! Ha! :)

I am perhaps not a old as some of your readers, but one thing that I loved growing up was all those vintage Fisher Price toys - barns, houses, fairs. They were wonderful, and created such a great imagination! Playing in the fields surrounding our home, creating "houses" within them, Sunday afternoon bike rides with dad, not even knowing what it was like to spend time on a computer... Those are things I want my children to at least know a little bit of!
Becky A. Schick said…
Oh my goodness, Jeané. I'm REEEALLY good at missing bygone things. Better than most, I might venture. Here goes...

I totally miss rotary phones, too. Actually we still had one with a giant "RRRIIIIIING" at our (Steve & I) house just five or six years ago. (Yes, it was because of my insistence and nostalgia.)

I miss getting real mail (and sending it, too). Thus, I have delved into swap-bot.com and artist trading cards. I get to send and receive real mail (even though it could be considered a bit "contrived"), it's real snail mail, and I love it.

I miss Fisher Price Little People being bland and unappointed. Only moms, dads, brothers, sisters, and dogs. The occasional "driver" or "farmer," but most of the story was up to the player. Hence, my FPLP collection. LOL. Do you see a trend? And... just this past Friday I gladly shelled out $6 for a wonderfully working FPLP merry-go-round!!! and $8 for a FP record player... but not your kind... the kind with the music box records. Do you remember?

Sticker books were a grand time, Jaime. Do you remember "oilies?" The envy of all.

I miss most Sundays spent at my Gramma's. But I am happy that this tradition now happens, just a generation down the lane.

I miss riding in the back of pick-up trucks and riding in the backseat of the car but with my head right smack between my parents' shoulders. The seat belts and car seats thing is honestly one of my saddest thoughts when I think of my children not doing something I did. I'm not sure why it's SUCH a big deal to me, but it is.

Anyone remember Buck Rogers? The Muppet Show! Dick Van Dyke. Carol Burnett! (Hee Haw was ALWAYS on at my Gramma & Pa's.)

Oh, dear. I could go on for nearly ever. I'll end with these throwbacks: snorks, care bears, outliner pens, hypercolor shirts, dymo embossing labelers (yepper, just got me one of them, too... ebay's great!), intellivision, apple IIc, and my powder puff BIG WHEEL!!! Thanks, Jeané!!!
Becky A. Schick said…
Oh, just a couple more... (I hope my first tremendously long post came through)... Captain Kangaroo, and especially the bit with "Well, you know my name is Simon, and the things I draw come true..." L.O.V.E. it. Will now be singing that one line for days. And... the only thing I didn't like about Kindergarten was that I missed The Price Is Right. LoL.
Shelly said…
I'm a brand new reader to your blog~as of today! A dear friend (Clarita Yoder) was just telling me about you on Saturday, and I stopped by to visit your blog tonight for the first time. Yeah! Just in time for a giveaway? =)

The jelly shoes, record players, and especially the little tape recorders that my siblings and I spent hours singing and reading into are fabulous memories. I miss my Grandmother too, who loved us grandkids so much and would do crazy stuff with us like staying up late, sleeping out in the yard with us, eating pizza with us past midnite, etc. She also lived through the Great Depression, and taught us by example how to save and reuse things~nothing ever went to waste~almost to a fault!! I'm not sure why she came into this 'discussion' except that so many of the old things I remember are somehow associated with her.

Thanks for sharing this post with us . . . I'm sure I'll be back to visit again. =)
Anonymous said…
POP ROCKS!
When i think of my childhood I think of candy! We lived not even a half mile up the street from a Turkey Hill & often (back in those days) my Mom would let myself & a few neighborhood kids walk to the store. (guess it was much safer then. would NEVER do that with my children now). Anywho, I just loved purchasing some POP ROCKS candy and the pop it made in your mouth, with each bite! I also have to admit I enjoyed a wonderful saturday morning viewing of "Saved By The Bell", who could ever forget Zach Morris. I think I literally stuck my face to the T.V. screen to kiss him! :) Zach and Kirk Cameron (from Growing Pains) were my DREAM MEN!

Those are memories I can recount, in addition to many more.
Vickie said…
This was so fun to read. I was just talking with my 12 year old about my old "records"...oh the crackle!!! You are so right.

Word on the street...you can still get "sweet honesty" from your friendly "Avon Lady"!!!
Judy G said…
Oh Jeane', your readers are so young!! My memories will be ones that you, and they, will most likely not remember. Here goes...
Saturday morning cartoons featuring the Sally Star Show, Howdy Doody, Mighty Mouse and one other goofy guy that has escaped my memory search. Thursday nights w/Dr.Kildare, watching Ben Casey, Father Knows Best and Gidget(later the Flying Nun). My father's favorites- the Dick Van Dyke show, Red Skelton, Sing along with Mitch(follow the bouncing ball) and Lawrence Welk. We went for Sunday drives w/ no seat belts. Swam in my uncle's pond w/ no life guards, played in the strawmow w/ normal sized bales of straw- not the ones that they make now that are the size of small houses!! Endless games of Tag, Hide and Seek and a game we called "Lemonade Stand"- a type of charades. Roasts burning in the oven when the preacher went long, and then Big Sunday dinners w/ mashed potatoes, inviting someone home from church to share it. Along with rotary phones w/ party lines, were the phone numbers that began w/ letters- TW, EX. Tubs w/ NO showers. Homes w/ only ONE bathroom!! I need to stop. Thanks for the jiggle that brought all of these fun things to mind!
Hugs,Judy G
i miss my old little story records too! my favorite was strawberry shortcake
Judy G said…
Judy G again. The goofy guy on Saturday mornings was Soupy Sales(Rick remembered for me!)and I have very fond memories of playing with my paper dolls. One set was colonial era clothes and the other was the Lennon Sisters from The Lawrence Welk Show. Do they even make paper dolls anymore? And then there was my Betsy McCall and Barbie doll family, and my big metal dollhouse with all the plastic furniture. I still have all of it!!

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